About Kellie - Sex Therapy Services

First, I acknowledge that this is a HUGE photo of me, and I've decided to be alright with it.

Second, as a therapist in Hawaii and Virginia, I proudly work with individuals on creating the personal relationships they desire and deserve. My practice is a virtual space that is LGBTQIA+ safe and affirming for all identities, including kink and poly relationships.

As an AASECT certified Sex Therapist specializing in clinical sexology, I am equipped to help you navigate intimacy challenges such as:

- Sexual desire (either too much or too little)

- Shame surrounding sexual feelings, actions, or preferences

- Managing out of control sexual behaviors (like excessive porn consumption or masturbation)

- Recovering from the pain of sexual betrayal

- Anxiety or depression impacting your sexual wellness

It is my honor to listen to you fully, challenge you with thought-provoking questions that others may not ask, and provide a safe space for you to share stories you can't tell anywhere else.

I specialize in working with fellow therapists, military personnel, first responders, professional athletes, actors, and artists engaged in non-traditional relationships. I hold undergraduate degrees in both Business and Counseling, a Master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy, and a PhD in Clinical Sexology. Additionally, I am a proud member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT) and the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), adhering to their ethical standards.

In 2022, I co-founded Holding Space Hawaii, a 501(c)3 non-profit focused on creating opportunities to explore taboo subjects such as sex and death through community events and educational programs.

In 2026, I launched Sexpert Society™, an education-based community for sexual health experts and enthusiasts. This platform will provide opportunities to connect, earn CE credits, and obtain unique sexual health merchandise.

I'm also a Sommelier and wine educator. During my free time, I conduct workshops on mindful wine tasting and seminars exploring the intersection of wine and intimacy.

Enough about me, let’s focus on you. It is entirely possible to heal from past hurts, identify and express your current needs, and work towards achieving your goals for tomorrow.

You CAN have the life you want! You CAN cultivate fulfilling and supportive relationships! You CAN experience the goodness you truly deserve!

When you’re ready to confront the topics you can't discuss with friends or family, call me.